Did I miss my window of opportunity with this girl?

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08-09-13, 05:35 PM
thebosslover

Did I miss my window of opportunity with this girl?

Hey everyone,

Basically, there is this girl that I have liked over the last 8 months. It started when I kissed her at a party. However, even though I had feelings, I never ended up making a move or asking her out. Flash forward to today, I found out that she liked me at the time (earlier this year) and had feelings too (and she had a feeling that I liked her back). But just recently, she apparently got another boyfriend.

So basically, did I miss my window of opportunity? I really regret not asking her out. What should I do though? Should I still tell her that I like her, but say that I don't want to ruin things between her and her new BF? I just want her to know how I feel. A part of me also wants to try to win her over (but I don't know if that's the right thing to do).

Please help. I just want to know what I should do here. It hurts a lot to think that I missed my chance, especially since I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship before.
08-09-13, 05:57 PM
Boisdevie

Yep, you blew it. Advice - don't be such a little scaredy cat next time. Yer acting like a little boy not an adult.
08-09-13, 06:56 PM
basilandthyme

It's too late. Don't say anything now - it's not respectful to her current relationship.
08-09-13, 10:43 PM
4 ratties

It will make u look bad to try to break up her current relationship
09-09-13, 12:12 AM
Coddy555

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Originally Posted by thebosslover [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Hey everyone,

Basically, there is this girl that I have liked over the last 8 months. It started when I kissed her at a party. However, even though I had feelings, I never ended up making a move or asking her out. Flash forward to today, I found out that she liked me at the time (earlier this year) and had feelings too (and she had a feeling that I liked her back). But just recently, she apparently got another boyfriend.

So basically, did I miss my window of opportunity? I really regret not asking her out. What should I do though? Should I still tell her that I like her, but say that I don't want to ruin things between her and her new BF? I just want her to know how I feel. A part of me also wants to try to win her over (but I don't know if that's the right thing to do).

Please help. I just want to know what I should do here. It hurts a lot to think that I missed my chance, especially since I'm 23 and have never been in a relationship before.

I'm 23 as well. And i've never been in a relationship before. You know why? Because I don't want to. I'm enjoying being single way more. The biggest plus is that I can date whoever I want, when I want.

My advice- forget about her. Get yourself out there and start meeting new people. Sooner rather than later you'll meet another cute girl that like you back. Hopefully you won't act like a wussy again and you'll make things happen.