Is he playing games w/ me? Help!
The guy I'm talking to is my cousin's neigbor.. I began talking to him on Facebook. I thought he was cute & I told him I wanted to get to know him better. He told me he did too & asked me out on a date..On the spot! After we came from the movies, he text me & said I had a "Nice smile". I didn't hear frm him for 4 days. So, I txted him to ask if he was Really interested..or Not. He said he was, but he didn't know that I was. Couple of days later, I txtd him & told him I was going by my cousins house & askd him if he wantd to hang out for awhile. We txtd back and forth & finally met up in front of his house. I txtd wen I arrived to his house, but he never replied. I waited 20 mins. outside & nothing. I textd him again telling him "Im outside". Nothing! I waited 10 More mins. I left!! I decided to go to Denny's for dessert where he works (& he was working that night, too.) When I got there, I was Mad.. but mostly Confused. I felt he stood me up. He txtd me then & ask me where I was so I told him Denny's. He said he "fell asleep". He got there & said hi to me as he was passing by my table to serve his customers. Thats about it. The next day, early in the morning, he txtd me & he told me I was acting weird w/ him the night before. I explaind to him that I was mad, he apologizd about the whole ordeal. After awhile, he wouldn't txt me & I would. But one night it backfired. I txtd him & never received a reply. That day he IMed me on Facebook saying that if he had replied to my txt, why didn't I reply back? I told him I never received that text. Then he signed off. The following day, I IMed him on fb explaining that we had bad timing & miscomminications. He tells me that "I'm playing games" because I never replied to the txts he sent & that I should "Stop feeding him lies" because I "was never interested". He said he was More interested than I was & that he was sorry if he didn't have alot of time to talk between; work, school, & practice w/ his band.
We decided that we were going to talk when he was free. A couple of days later I was going to my cousins house & I saw him outside. I askd him if he was still mad at me & out of nowhere he grabed me & hugged me. We talked fr about an hour, holding hands at the same time (his doing). We talked about alot of things- even personal issues. Before iIleft he told me to txt him when I got home. I did just that. I didn't hear from him after that. I text him & told him I thought we had made progress when we talked the week before, but I didn't know what to think, because he hadn't contacted me. He replied that there was, but the last few days he was signing up for school & working. He said he wasn't getting enough sleep & in his spare time he was resting. He "had not had time to think". Yesturday I text him & askd him how his first day of class was. Didnt reply. Havent heard from him since. So,... is he playing games??
