Please help me get over my Cheating Ex :(
Hi, i'm a 25 year old newly qualified teacher and I found out 2 weeks ago that my partner has been cheating on me for the past 3 months. We were together 2 years and I absolutely adored him. I thought he was the one for me and we talked about spending the rest of our lives together. He was very protective over me and didn't like me going out with my friends, he tried to control what I wore when I did go out. He told me the reason for this was that he was so in love with me he didn't want other guys chatting me up and running the risk of us breaking up. I lost alot of friends because of this which at the time I thought was ok because I believed he'd always be there for me so I was willing to jeopardize this for him as I loved him so much. I now realize that this wasn't the case and that he was really insecure because he was a cheat himself. I found out that he had been seeing a 17 year old girl (he is 30!!!) through facebook as this girl's mum msgd me telling me about the cheating. She said how he wanted to be with her and was going to break up with me when he found the right time! I then received more msgs from the girl herself, her friend and her aunt telling me horrible details about the sex they had together . Whilst this was going on I was sick in hospital for a week and poorly for sometime afterwards. I can't believe the person I loved so much did such a disgustin act and for 3 months. I now feel that the whole relationship was a joke! I think back to how i was so inlove with him and I really believed he felt the same back! He treated me like a queen!! I now think I was a dilusional fool as no1 does this to someone they love!
The thing is I still love him and I miss him so much, he was mylife and my rock and without him I have nothing. I haven't found a job since graduating and I sit at home all day looking at photos and thinking about how happy I was. It then turns to thinkng about how he could do this to me and I can't get the image of the 2 of them out of my head. It's got to the point now where I really wish I wasn't here anymore