I feel terrible, just need to tell someone what I did
I'm on the dating site match. I winked at this girl (basically the way of saying I'm interested in you) and she emailed me back a few hours later very enthusiastic; we seemed to have a lot in common. So, I know this is probably bad, but I think most people do it, I google her to see if I can find out any more information. She's also on this site Okcupid as well and they have VERY personal questions, (though you don't have to answer any if you don't want to). (For those who don't know me, I'm waiting until marriage and would like the same from my wife). And so I find out through one of the questions she's not a virgin. So I just wrote back to her that she seemed like an amazing girl (which she seemed to be) and was very pretty (which she also was), but I had a feeling things wouldn't work out between us (I know they wouldn't because I would have eventually found out about the sex. I feel like a f**king d*ck. I'm extremely picky, always looking for ways to eliminate or screen people before meeting them. And I cannot get over the sex part. There's times where I think to myself, what's the big deal if they've had sex before, but other times where I'm totally obsessed with it. It's really hurting me because basically everything in my life is perfect except for the no significant other thing. And if I had a gf I know I would treat her so right. It's just this effing sex thing that screws with my head and I don't know how to get past it.
And sorry, I just had to vent my feelings
Re: I feel terrible, just need to tell someone what I did
Just a question, why do you want to be both of you virgin to a marriage?
This is me talking, I don't really care if a girl is virgin or not.. Ok I ask her if she is or not, but it doesn't matter at all...
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Re: I feel terrible, just need to tell someone what I did
[QUOTE=Obviously being a guy, I'm grossed out by other guys and just the thought of knowing another guy's di*k was their before me when we're having sex is just disgusting to me. I don't know why other guys don't feel this way. Why would I want to put my di*k in the same area where another guy's di*k already was?[/QUOTE]
That is just a thing in your head..
What about when you seat in public places? You don't know what happened there before you sat.
Have you thought in the opposite way?
The girl being gross of a guy because he penetrated another girls
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