Is there any way to kind of just turn them off? I've been slowly getting over what happened with my ex, but I haven't been able to get her off my mind yet. Things will be better in a couple weeks when I'm busy again, but not now. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping to get rid of the thoughts... but then she's in my dreams. And that pisses me off because that should be where I can definitely stop thinking about her. I've had dreams about her five nights in a row.