What do women want in men?
Okay, I'm a man.
I don't want people flaming this topic as I know it can be a very sensitive issue to some women. But I want some honest opinion here. And I don't want opinion from teenagers. I'd rather hear from people who are in a successful relationship for at least a year or more, or in a successful marriage for at least a year. And successful doesn't mean happily ever after, I mean just the regular couple with occasional fights. As long as you are happy with your partner, and not hating everything they do then thats fine.
I shall now list down a list of attributes. Perhaps ladies could rank them from most to least desirable. And I want ya'll to think long term!! I know being romantic is good, but you can't feed a marriage with romance alone!
I want to know what women appreciate, especially if they're thinking of settling down. This could be an opportunity for me to change myself.
Here goes:
1. Healthy (ie. men who are not morbidly obese, or severely malnourished. No HIV or Herpes. Not too old unless you are old yourself.)
2. Wealthy
3. Ambitious
4. Funny
5. Good in bed
6. Fertile
7. Impatient but rational - a problem fixer
8. Patient but irrational - a listener, but can't fix problems
9. Good insight - always willing to change
10. Romantic
11. Mysterious
12. Good looks
13. Family sorta guy
14. X factor - Just clicks with you, understands you, can be your best friend.
Can ladies please rank them accordingly? And please DON'T allocate the same rank to any attributes! Perfect men don't exist!
I am most interested to find out. :D