its been bothering me a bit....

as you all know, i made a post about my boyfriend... and were considering a break...
in a way i feel we should see other people, but then i feel i love him soo much, and im his first gf.
anyway, im a waitress, and so i meet lots of people...
i met this one guy at work a couple days ago...
and he was amazing!

out going, perfect charm, great phisique, loving, and all that great stuff a woman would like
[what my bf kinda doesn't have because i taught him everything].

well he ended up staying at work with me until my shift ended just to keep me company
[i work at nights].

so every now and then we spoke, and it felt so natural, and for the first time
i actually spoke to someone that
that seemed...exciting!
he was gorgeous... but: he just got a divorce a year ago, he has 3 beautiful children,
his job requires him to be gone 2 months straight and stay home for 1 month....
and he's about 12 years older me and to be honest that doesn't matter >.<

lol its crazy i know, idk if its just natural, or why i feel this way. he's amazing
and sexy, and MATURE...
i definitely don't think i want a relationship after the issues my bf and i are going
through

its wrong i know... i kinda like him, but im too hesitant to do anything of course
because don't know where i stand with my bf, and we have a lot of issues...

i guess i jus want to know... am i wrong... i mean idk where i stand...

because with my bf i feel...not fun??

him and i talk and stuff, but...it seems like he fulfills what ive never had with anyone...
is this wrong?

its a lot i know, i just hope someone can help or give suggestions.... <3

does it make sense....?

If you think you don't feel "fun" with your boyfriend, just wait until you are dealing with other people's kids on a regular basis. Those "beautiful children" very frequently become a nightmare in divorce situations, and if there are 3 of them, you can COUNT ON at least one of them being difficult. To be honest, you don't sound old enough to handle this situation, and I generally don't advise it unless one already has their OWN children.

If you are unhappy with your current relationship, I think it is best for you to just get rid of the boyfriend. Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire!

lol okay
you've got a point <3

Oh, and there's no need to feel sorry for your current partner either. You were his first, but unless something tragic happens him, he'll find someone else in a few years time.

I agree with Vashti. If you aren't happy and have issues with the current relationship, why are you there? Leave it.

Take some time out and to be alone.

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Originally Posted by xxazurexx [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

I agree with Vashti. If you aren't happy and have issues with the current relationship, why are you there? Leave it.

Take some time out and to be alone.

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yeah you guys are right...
thanks it means a bunch!!
<3
i guess i was getting ahead of myself.
thaks again :)

^^Trust me, the best thing you can do, is to take time out alone. That is something I have always done.
Helps you clear your head and gives you time to figure out that you want - and 'single' life aint as bad as it's cracked up to be.
I love being 'single' and independant and doing as I please.
More so and because I was married for a long time though, lol :)