Should I continue to ignore her
So there's this girl. Long distance. We never really met, but were best friends, and talked all the time. We got closer, admitted to each other that we liked each other in a greater way. Then admitted we loved each other. She then found a new guy, after I had done nothing wrong, and dated him saying that it was because he was closer. I was upset then. She dumped him, saying because she loved me, and the cycle between us restarted. We got closer this time. She had also planned to visit her ex, (a different one, who she admittedly still loved) who lived across the country. She told me that she did not plan on getting back together with him right away, and that she did see a future with me. She also told me not to text her for the two weeks she was with him, but that she'd try to email me every night. She messaged me twice during those two weeks, the last one telling me she was back with him. Oh, and before she left,we had phone sex (not my idea btw, but I did enjoy it). That was my first intimate experience I've ever had. She said, and I quote, "I love you with all my heart." So now again to two weeks later, she wants to just be friends, so she can be with her ex. I started trying to act like we were just friends, but I still felt something more. I knew the only way to get over her was to reduce contact. I haven't been texting her as much, or being as sweet and loving (even though it kills me to do this, she did hurt me) and she has noticed. I feel awful for not being her best friend like I was. Things just feel different. She is mad at me. Should I continue to ignore her, or suffer through and be her friend like she wants? The way I see it, she chose him over me, she made her choice, so I will just let her know what choice she made.
