Whats the deal with women and marriage proposals?
How do you satisfy a woman who wants to know you are going to ask her to marry you but still wants it to be a surprise? Like she doesn't want to talk about it at all but still wants to get the go ahead from me before i actually do it. I know because i did ask and now shes all bent out of shape that we never discussed it before hand. Evey time i would bring it up she didn't want to hear it or would say "you don't ask a girl that!" But now shes like you have to be 100%sure that when you ask the girl will say yes otherwise you ruin it but it has to be a surprise at the same time. So how the hell do you let her know that you are going to ask her to marry you, get her ok to do it because shes ready, and then make it a surprise when it happens? Afterwords she was angry we didn't talk about it first and i asked her what was there to talk about and she agreed that there isn't anything to talk about and that i just caught her off guard. But isn't that the point?
This is the same girl who yelled and got really pissed at me when i bought her diamond earrings just as a gift. Her exact word were "i never asked for you to buy me these". I was like yeah they are supposed to be a gift because i love you. Later she said she acted that way because nobody ever did anything like that for her before and she didn't know how to react. Its like she has been waiting for certain things to happen for so long she doenst know what to do when it does happen. She has built it up to the point that no matter what happens it will be wrong in some way. I have to do exactly what she is thinking or how it should happen to her and i will never be able to do that. I cant read minds.