Boyfriend joining dating sites...again.

Hey, im new to this so please don't just yell or anything.

I've been with my boyfriend about two and a half years, i really love him and he says he loves me.

He cheated on me last year but ended it and came back to me, he joined a few sex sites and was arranging to meet up with a few of the girls until i found the emails, he confronted him, he said they were just spam( i know they weren't).
He deleted them all and hasn't bothered since but i looked on his email again today and he's joined up to a site called first affairs.

How do i take this?

By dumping his cheating ass... unless you like being cheated on?

'Fraid so. Chupacabras has it right. You have to get rid of this bad guy and make some room in your life for someone who would never, ever cheat. let this be a lesson to you- don't take a cheater back.

Do you learn lessons or just repeat mistakes? Here is a chance to LEARN a lesson.

The title of this thread should be "Busted My Now Ex Boyfriend Joining Dating Websites Again, So I Broke His Ass Off"

just sayin'

You take it as a sign to get the hell out of this mess. My ex did this shit to me allll the time. They don't change my dear.

dump him.
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Dump his ass in style.

Make an account and flirt with him online or however those sites work. Basically catch him in the act. And then cut his balls off.

Sam, love requires trust and respect. You have no reason to trust him anymore, and he doesn't respect you. End this relationship immediately.

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Originally Posted by takingitslow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dump his ass in style.

Make an account and flirt with him online or however those sites work. Basically catch him in the act. .

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Oh my god, that would be so much fun.

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Originally Posted by takingitslow [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dump his ass in style.

Make an account and flirt with him online or however those sites work. Basically catch him in the act. And then cut his balls off.

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Awesome idea! You probably shouldn't cut his balls off, though.

How about this: make an account, get pictures of some other girl that's really super hot, and come onto him really strong. Ask him to meet up with you at some location, and dump him at the meeting.

Do it, and tell us how it goes, please. :D

the guy doesnt love you cos if he did he wouldnt ever do anything like that. the longer you stay with him the worse it will get and the worse you will feel till you breakdown into depression. it will hurt at first but time heals and you'll eventually realise he was a waste of space and you'll find some who will love you back.

Just dump his ass!

Btw that dating profile idea sounds well good but you could end up getting more hurt cos of the way he might reply back to the virtual profile you create. I think for your sanity you shouldn't do that. Just dump him.

If he replies back in the way that I think you're suggesting, the OP will be forced to confront what her boyfriend is actually like. She'll realize why she needs to do this, and hopefully become angry. With that anger will come the motivation to teach him this lesson, and humiliate him at the meeting.

Also, it would make a good spectacle for us.