maybe heres the reason why she's pulling you up
women generally don't like a man who goes straight for it and trys automatically licking the clit. my suggestion is to kiss around the pussy particularly the vulva (spot between vagina opening and clit) kiss and lick around there and the spot where the legs meet the pussy. thats another sensitive area. another really pleasurable area is the spot between the vagina and the anus, it has a large amount of nerve endings. also kiss the lips and kiss around her clit and build anticipation. then go back up and suck on her nipples and as soon as you know it she'll be begging you to go back down and make her cum. the more anticipation she has the more intense the orgasm will be. also when you lick the clit ask her how she likes it licked. sometimes women find direct stimulation too intense some like a much softer touch some firmer. make sure you ask, communication is key. another old time favorite is writing letters on her vulva using your tongue. usually the most favorite letters are N and Z but find out which ones she prefers.
also when massaging her g-spot. the location is an inch in and up. it should be about the size of a grape. do not touch this spot gently, it requires more of a firm massage. also for all you gals reading this if your man is massaging the correct way you should feel the desire to pee for a couple seconds. realize that this urge is a misleading feeling because your g-spot slightly pushes against your bladder while he massages. this is the reason 25% of women do not climax from their g-spot becasue they stop the sensation for fear of wetting on there partners. the feeling is misleading. to forestall this fear try peeing beforehand.
also for guys while many men can cum without much effort women require massive amounts of foreplay. you must let her know that your enjoying it by telling her you love her and she tastes well and she's beautiful etc. the more enthusiastic the better. women tend to become easily distracted with fears such as: (I think he hates this it probably tastes bad, i dont want to squirt on his face, that buldge on my tummy makes me look fat, i have cellulite patches on my inner thighs, i dont think he's enjoying this) REASSURE THEM
also also blended orgasms, climaxing of the g-spot and clitorius together produce the best feeling. to intensify them 1. COMMUNICATE 2. MAKE HER ANTICIPATE 3. another way to even intensify it more is to insert two fingers into her anus. the anus is a big recepter of nerve endings and is near the g-spot. this can give her a feeling of fullness and increase the pleasure from the orgasm but i recommend talking to her before doing it.