Why do I care/feel guilty about this?
Long story short, me and a female friend have a history of a lot of sexual tension. Have made out before/tried dating briefly but I didn't see her as gf material. She got very offended and we didn't talk for months. Recently, we made amends, but the same sexual tension came back with a vengeance. We both agreed it was there and I asked her if she wanted to try having sex. She said she can't just have sex without wanting commitment, and I'm usually the same way but wanted to try the friends with benefits thing out, as I was lonely and had never done that. Well, we never had sex but it turned out to blow up in my face because she still had feelings for me and thought I just wanted to get her in bed etc etc. that's wasn't my intent. Anyhow, we made up and agreed to be just friends again, or so I thought. I just started dating someone AMAZING and this friend saw pics posted of us and is very upset/hurt etc. I can't help but feel guilty or like a bad person despite everyone around me telling me I did nothing wrong and she's just very insecure. Rationally, I know I shouldn't feel bad, but I have a big heart and I don't want her to think poorly of me, but at the same time want to be happy myself. Should I feel bad? How should I approach this? Just ignore it and let her get over it?