Originally Posted by gHEXjt
I think the way you go about this really depends on how you truly feel about him. My ex did something like this before, and I stood by broken-hearted for 3 months while she was with someone else. But I was willing to be with her after that even though she knew I wanted her in the first place, and we ended up really falling in love. Mind you she is my ex, but we were together for almost 4 years and had an unbelievable relationship for the first 3. So you never really know. ;) But everyone else looks at this like you'd be wasting your time, and they may be right.