My girlfriend tells me I have a case of "Relationship Fatalism" where all my thoughts point to the end of the relationship. I never thought of it this way, but I think she has a point.
Today we had a little disagreement. Not even a full argument, but differences in opinions. She thought I was being dismissive. I thought she was being disrespectful in her response. So we ended up discussing what went wrong today. We had sex first so we could clear our head. :)
She basically said that over the last 6 months since we have been together, whenever there was a disagreement, I would immediately refer to ending the relationship rather than solving the issue. I don't completely agree with that, as she would get all the credit for us staying together. I think fundamentally I just want her to be happy....and I have told her before, I would only leave the relationship if something or someone can thoroughly convince me that I am not good for her. In theory, that means I would never leave her, as I make her really happy, I believe. But in the back of my mind, I keep thinking that I don't deserve to be this happy.... I just never imagined myself being this happy....and with the woman of my dreams. This is still unreal to me, and I feel like it's gonna end when I wake up. She pointed it out today...that I act as if one morning she would wake up and realize i'm not good for her, and she would stop seeing me suddenly. I guess I have been acting like that...as I often feel insecure....for some reason. She has been perfect to me....She considers me in every way. She pleasures me, and she loves me tremendously. I don't know why I go through these crazy phases, where I convince myself that all this would end. I lose sleep over this, and it's driving me nuts. Some day she would get tired of this... I know... I might be going insane...
Has anyone else every feel like this, or am I alone psycho?