A friend of mine just found a new gf and has changed so much since. He has settled down (from having a Have fun everyweekend, Loyal to all friends ect look on life) which is fair enough, but they have since made changes to their 'love' relationship which I belive are very immature and they now have a terrible relationship thats affecting a lot of people. His gf was friends with a group of guys, and one of them liked her more as a friend. I think this triggered their change because my mate got annoyed about this guy liking his gf.. To stop him from liking her she has pushed away that group of guys who she was really good mates with, and now pretty much only has her bf. He has also decided to 'not socialize' with ANY members of the opposite sex whatsoever.. (They have removed opposite members of sex from there top friends list on bebo ect, they are taking it way to far..) So MY best friend who is a girl, was a very close friend to my mate, and has been his friend for a longer time then I have known him (nothing but friends). She is upset because he has pushed her away completely, ignoring her, not talking to her and not even acknowledging she is present. Me and my best friend have a relationship but are not currently bf/gf (We are now back to normal and are very happy). This is so unfair because about not awhile ago he made a comment to my best friend "He (me) is making you so sad and you are pushing away your friends and I dont like it" This is completly hypocritical is it not? We are so angry at them because they have decided to do this..
Their Relationship is like this:
- No socializing with opposite members of same sex (This apparently means they are %100 loyal to each other" This means they are commited to each other. They make sure they ask each other if they can go out blah blah blah
It seems very stupid to me because I know they have one of those young immature relationships built on lust and attraction.. I know they arn't going to last.
It is effecting a lot of people expecially our once tight group of friends. Should I bother to see my mate even though he is able to push away my best friend and remove her from his life after being so caring of her (as a friend).. What kind of person is he? I don't think i should bother making an effort to do anything with him. They will loose all of us friends eventually.
Is there any advice on how to talk to this couple?
I have explained to them what I can but they are pretty stubborn and are sticking with their ways..
Am I even right to be thinking this? Or is their relationship a good one?
Hope the story wasn't to confusing. Thanks