HELP ME! Im so shy I cannot talk to my crush....
Before you read this, know that I have been in several long relationships and short ones, and I am in my early 20s...
I need a guys advice... I have a crush on this guy that I work with. I've been his acquaintance for about 3 months since I started working there. We would randomly talk on and off at work when we would see each other, but then he myspace'd me recently so I started talking to him a little bit more. And that is when I kind of developed a crush on him, he is WAY more out going than me, which is intimidating... and now he comes up to me at work and wants to talk to me more but I am so shy now (I was not before I had crush on him) I get all tongue-tied, I can feel myself blushing. I could not even speak to him, one time he came up and made a comment about something we were joking about on myspace, and much to my dismay I couldnt say anything!! I feel like I am coming off as a bitch who is trying to ignore him, he even said that I was mean, but I think he may have been joking...
Either way it really sucks, because I think he wants to become better friends with me (he will go out of his way to come to my dept to talk to me, even though we are both really busy and he will joke around with me, even when I barely say anything back to him), I also will catch him looking at me when we are at meetings, and if I say something in a crowd even if everyone else ignores what I said he will comment... I do not know if these are signs that he has a crush on me too... but I just do not know what to do..
I definitely do not want to tell him that I have a crush on him, because I feel like I barely know him (and yknow how you can get a crush, but then you realize how that person REALLY is) but I want to say something so he knows that I am not trying to ignore him. So maybe we can become better friends...
PLEASE tell me what you would be thinking AND what I can do or say to make him understand, even if it hints that I have a crush on him, I just cannot tell him outright...