Is this guy serious ? or am I in the friendzone ?
Hi,
I've met the original bad-boy at work (not the same company as me) and thought it was fun at first, remembering historic disasters with guys like this (party animals) I decided to keep wel clear of this one. Fat luck, as he wasn't about to leave me alone!
I used to be a bit of a wild thing myself...and being around him (he comes into my office at least 5x a day) I feel it is all coming back. I really can't afford it with the position I have now...but hell....i love being around him.
Ever since he got my # he's texted me about 70 times (in 3 wks) these were never sexually tinted, but always about some fun or crazy stuff he'd been doing. He's also texted met from other phones, or called me to say he had no credit left :D.
A couple of years ago I made up my mind that long term relationships weren't for me, they never worked out (i'm 35 and the longest relationship has lasted 6months) so to keep from getting hurt, I decided the occasional one nighter would do me. Which was exactly what I had in mind with this guy:evil: I figured him being such a outgoing, extravert type, he would probably jump at the chance and would even probably feel the same way.
In the last 3 weeks he's asked me out at least 6-8 times, which I had to decline because of several reasons (time !) He asked me to dinner Friday, but something came up (work) and it didn't happen- so later he called me if i'd like to come round for a DVD evening, which I did. From walking into his appartement, it was like we'd been friends for 10yrs. We soon started a bottle of whiskey and a waterpipe and had a ball of a time watching Ice Age. I stayed over and slept on a matress in the living room, he slept on a smaller matrass next to me. He left for work at 5 in the morning- I didn''t get up, but left soon after.
He never even tried to make a move...which I had not expected from a guy like this.
Is he taking this serious....or am I just a friend to him ?
