Overthinking thoughts and anxiety
Hello everyone, i've been with my girlfriend since september, i'm 25, she's 22.
Just like every other relationship i had in the past, we all start good and then love starts dying, and from my point of view and my relationship skills i've learned so many things from the past that i wanna tell you about while i explain my situation:
Everything is so nice, i tried avoiding many things i did wrong in the past with my previous ex'es and everything is going smooth, i love laughing with her, i try making her my 100% priority and she does aswell, i like talking to her about other things, i like to be more friendly than more lovely sometimes. I try avoiding any sort of sadness and jealousy, i just ask her for advice when i need help with something, in the past i would show sadness and unsecurities and this was a big mistake for me in my previous relationship. I try not to make her think that she's the only person that can make me happy.. i really tried avoiding all those kind of things. I understand, but..... a few days ago, since she started working, she's been acting so different, for about 5-6 days straight. I don't know what's going on... 2 weeks ago she would call me facetime me almost everyday, in my days off from work she would call me in the morning. It makes me sad now cause i kind of feel as if she's losing interest, some of you would say that she's tired cause now she's working but sometimes i feel like i'm the only one giving her attention while she's doing her other things, i tried asking her the other day "Are you happy with me" and she would say "yeah, i just been busy with a lot of things in the house and im very tired when i get off from work."
I try not to tell her that or talk about it too much, i don't want our relationship to be the egocentric type. She's been going out lately a lot with her friends and she wouldn't tell me where she's going and with who in the past few days aswell. Now when we get to talk on facetime i get to talk to her, she's recieving calls.. and would say they calling her from a store to offer her a credit card, it's been the third time she said it and i had changed the subject to avoid any conflict. Last night she went out, and i told her to text me whenever she got home and she didn't i don't think she even slept home because we had this app called Life360 where we can track eachother in a GPS map and it turns out she had the location deactivated on her phone, the app literally tells you if someobody does it, i wouldn't tell her that at all.. i don't want her to think i'm not trusting her anymore. This is the reason why i came here to get some advice. We also slept on the phone these past few days and she always ends up hanging up sending me a text later that she would go out with her friends late at night around 12am as if she's using me. It makes me think she's hiding something from me cause she's always saying that she wants to go to sleep with me on the phone but she literally just waits for me to go to sleep.
The reason while im explainig you this it's because i'm not sure if i should give it some time or should i talk to her about it? Any advice? should i leave her alone and see what happens or should i let her go?
It's hard to handle a long distance relationship, i'm starting to overthink any little thing now and it gives me a crazy anxiety...