A Man With Fetishes Turning Me Off!
I started dating this guy a couple weeks ago, getting to know him and see if there's a future for us.
Unfortunately, all he does is talk about his fetishes... He loves women's feet and has all these perverted thoughts about feet (especially mine), and then he goes on about how I have to wear certain panties and heels (I don't even own a pair of skanky heels because I have bad feet lol).
When I tell him I'm not crazy about those ideas he has sexually, he said I "killed it" for him. He even wanted me to answer my door to him in my underwear, which I would never do because I have neighbors all over my block who can see me come to my door!
In the midst of all this, we don't really have regular conversation about anything of substance. He's ALL about sexual fantasies and being sexual and hasn't planned a day for us to go for a walk or do something COUPLE like.
He then said I'm "not on his level" and that I'm confused with what I want in a relationship. I told him I want someone who I can marry and settle down with and have a family with...Someone who is JUST sexual all the time, I can't see a future with!!!
How can I tell him he's crazy and I don't want to see him any more?? Maybe some other woman wants that but I need someone more wholesome. He threatened me that I'll be alone the rest of my life....who the hell says things like this???
Any input on this crazy guy?