So I am breaking up with her...
I decided to break up with my girlfriend (after much thought and consideration), but I am not sure when. The problem I have is, I have already decided to break up with her, and I know my feelings for her have left, but we still have a date lined up 2 days from now.
The day after our date, she goes to her college, and I go to my college 2 days after (its a 13 hr plane ride for both of us.)
I told myself, that I would break up with her, possibly 1 week or 2 after college has started, so it does not stress her out as much. I just got off the phone with her, however, and found I had to force myself to tell her I care about her so as to not seem obvious. If I break up with her on our date, I know she will be devastated, and will likely be depressed the entire fun filled 13 hour flight back to US. I asked several of my friends, and their answer was in the middle... so I decided to ask you, the reader.
For additional information, I know my girlfriend cares a lot about me, we have dated over a year, but I don't share the same feelings for her that she has for me.
If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask... thank you for any advice you put up.
~Anon
So I am breaking up with her
Yeah, breaking up a loved one doesn't mean you don't love her anymore. Be true to yourself, because sometimes we really need someone that will makes as more happy.
Remember, you will definitely need to move on and time is the best healer.:D