is he lying when he says hes not attracted to me?
My ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago - we've known each other for a year and a half. We were together on and off for 3 months - it was messy for a lot of reasons and yes, we slept together at least 40 times - the sex was good but emotionally draining. He and I still talk at work and we joke around. A few days ago, he came to work and I was wearing a long tanktop (no cleavage was showing) and as soon as he walked in, he looked down. Later that day, I was teasing him and I told him he didnt compliment my outfit, he stares at my boobs says its very provocative, looks away and blushes. A few days later, we went to get coffee together so we can talk. For the first 15 min, he wouldn't look at me. I pointed it out to him, he said well you need to wear more clothes - its winter. I was wearing a shirt and pants (again, no cleavage). So, I asked him if he was still attracted to me. He said no. I called him a liar asked again, he said no, seriously. I asked him when he stopped. He said I'm not going to tell you. And this back and forth went on for a few minutes. he then told me that he's lost his mojo and its not just for me, for everyone. Is it true that he no longer finds me attractive or he just doesnt want to admit it bc of our messy history? We definitely can't date now and its probably more for my sake than his. Thank you!
