What's with men who do this?
Okay so 7 months ago I came out of a long term relationship. It had been a few years since being with anyone new and my memory was kind of rusty about how those initial stages go.
Anyway, I've had sex with two guys since, and both times the same thing happened... We were in bed messing around and then he just sticks it inside me. No questions of either 1) Is this OK? And more importantly, 2) Should I get a condom?
Both times I had to stop and make them go get a rubber whilst trying to hide my irritation. I'm on the pill so pregnancy isn't a concern but STIs sure are - I don't know these men's sexual histories! I just thought it was so rude, and whilst I really like/d both of them (these stories clearly are months apart), it was just so weird.
What are your thoughts on this? Especially male posters here on the forum?