Originally Posted by bohemiandonut
Personally I don't know how couples could possibly "stay friends" immediately after a break-up. And even if they do, there's a certain etiquette to those so-called friendships.
1. There is no reason for you to tell her about your latest endeavors, if she wants to know ask her why. Don't you have guy friends that would be more fun to talk to about las chicas?
2. She has no obligation to "be friends" with you. You can't call her and expect a totally neutral listener, that's just selfish and inconsiderate. If she needs time and is still hurt, you don't need to pour on the salt. Which brings me to my next point.
3. You sound like you are angry with her for breaking up with you. That is why you are telling her about this new girl that you know nothing about. Would you honestly be fine listening to her talk about, say, a one-night-stand or hooking up with an old boyfriend? Probably not unless you were getting laid.
All in all, be sensitive, she has no reason to be your friend. If you truly accept the separation, than follow through, don't play mind games and use other girls as tools of jealousy. You'll be okay.
