How do i find men who will want to date me?

How will i find men who want to date me? I keep picking the wrong men to date.

me too, i keep getting guys who just need someone to fill their loneliness.. its tough!

fate will connect

How do I find females who`d like to date me? Seems like nobody`s showing any interest in anything, or is afraid that "This guy is looking to play games" or "Is trying to fill his loneliness".

Agree with you here Archie. These girls dont see themselves from the side. "OMG guy is trying to fill his loneliness? What a user !" It just proves that girls wants guys who don't need them.

There are a lot of players out there...esp on dating sites. I just got done being used by someone wanting to pass time with until he found the one and it sucks. A day after the break up he posted on facebook he "conquers many girls to find his true love". Ouch. Its hard to tell if a guy is a bad boy or nice guy sometimes, I was completely blindsided.

I wished I was in love but everyone I want is taken and I don't want to hurt their feelings.

Do your friends, siblings, coworkers know men you would be interested in? I prefer going with people I know suggesting a match over OLD. Are you involved in any social groups, sports, meet up groups so you can expand your networking and meet new and interesting men? Own a dog, ever take it to the dog park?

date guys who are like you

I fully understand the rush to find a guy at 43, but maybe you just need to take a break. The reality check is you don't need a man to complete you. Just focus on yourself, and you will be ok. Go out find some friends have some fun! I understand, I have decided I am done with dating lately and I am ok with it.

opps sorry wrong post lol