I would love some advice.
the situation : I have a guy who considers me a friend, he states he will never see me as anything more than a friend. However, we talk and text on the phone every day, we hang out together at least twice a week, where we prepare meals, and I sleep over in the same bed and hug all night, we have had sex 3 times. He gets jealous of other guys I talk about, and wants me to open up to him more emotionally. He says he has been badly hurt in the past, 4 years ago his long term GF cheated on him, and since then he has essentially been on one to two dates every week, and always sleeps with them. Even though we have this friendship, he does continue to go on dates with girls, and have sex with them, but then always dumps them after 2 weeks. He always talks to me about which girl he's currently chatting up, which one he's dating, what the sex is like, etc. We sometimes have huge arguments like a couple would, I tell him to stay out of my life, but he never does, he just always there. I was getting the impression that he wanted to be **** buddies, but in the last couple days he has told me that is not what he wants
I guess I'm confused, I cant tell if he really does only want friendship, or if he does want more but is too afraid. desperately need a guys perspective. * to be clear, I have strong feeling for this male friend, but if I mention it, he still tells me he only wants friendship.
Please help