I am being used for money, sex and love.
I know this and that is okay. A little background: We are in love and have been in a relationship for 10 months. I am recently divorced and she is still married, separated for 1.5 years, yet not getting a divorce because of their financial debt and is waiting for the economy to get better. She has 2 children who live with her and I have 2 children.
She moved her family to my state to be closer to me. She has a job, which doesn't pay much at all. I help her out financially and pay for her daughters private school tuition. She is running me broke and I am not rich, but I can always make more money, so I don't care about the money. I give her great sex (she tells me this) and alot of love too.
My question is, "What expectations should I require for what I give her?" I know money cannot buy you into a relationship and her kids live with her as well, however, I expect to be more than a boyfriend, I expect a divorce and for me to move in with her. How long should I wait?
