Your thoughts on.....subservience?
Since my last relationship, I have a tendency to be a little subservient. I'm not sure if that is the word I want to use. When I am my boyfriends house, I voluntarily fold his laundry, make his bed, tidy up his room. [I went as far as cleaning my ex's bathroom--won't do THAT again!] The other night my boyfriend said "I have a surprise for you," and brought out a load of laundry from the garage. I playfully told him off, we laughed it off, and he did it himself. In the back of my head, I thought "Oh crap, have I set a precedent?" Later that night, I put clean sheets on his bed and cleaned up his room while he played games in the next room. I couldn't help it. I knew he would notice, and that it would make him happy. I wasn't at all bitter or resentful about it. He even responded positively to it, like he appreciated it. After I cooked dinner for him for the first time, he jokes to his mom that he's "domesticated me." [I didn't take offense to it.]
I think that I do things like that because it makes me feel like a good girlfriend. It's not even about housework all the time. I think it's just part of my personality to want to "help" or feel appreciated. However, like I said, I'm worried that my actions are setting a precedent that I might not be able to take back.
What do you, as males think of this tendency of mine?