When you have been a long term relationship, do you feel that you should have full knowledge, partial knowledge, or little knowledge of your partners sexual history? Does it matter to you if your partner has had more or less partners than you?
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When you have been a long term relationship, do you feel that you should have full knowledge, partial knowledge, or little knowledge of your partners sexual history? Does it matter to you if your partner has had more or less partners than you?
No, I don't even think about that. I just care that he only has one partner from now on: ME.
I don't know where he learned what he knows and I don't care, but I'm very glad he knows it.
Other than virginal status and whether or not they are disease-free, I don't see how anything more is anyone else's business. Smart people know enough to avoid asking questions they really don't want to know the answer to.
What if you're bf tells you everything before you even ask?
Honestly, I would question his motivation.
Hehe :D ... I think I actually questioned his sanity at the time. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by vashti [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]
This question has been done to death already.
i don't want any knowledge of it, as long as they don't have any diseases or infections i don't want.
here's a question:
what if you asked them about their sexual history, and they told you that they were raped once?
That would be awkward. My natural instinct would be to ask questions, find out who the guy was, and offer to kill him or something stupid like that. But that's an insensitive and dumb reaction. I guess the proper thing to do would be to wrap her up in a bear hug and not say a word. If she wants to talk, she'll talk.
Oh God Here We Go Again!
I want to know the truth...my reaction to it is none of their or yours business...how about that one? I deserve to know, if I don't get to know then they don't deserve to be with me. Do they lie because they think I can't handle the truth or because they can't handle me walking away?
I vote for FULL knowledge of the past, I deserve to know if I am to be a part of it.
Hmm.. I seem to have conflicting opinions.. I think I'll keep em to myself for now. Of course I want to know.. but do I really?! :P
I dont want any knowledge of that sort. I cant stand the thought of someone I care about screwing someone else
i don't really care about knowing that but if they tell me dose it really matter
I just don't want to know. If he's sleeping with me now, and enjoying it, that's really all that matters.
Everyone has a past get over it.