never throw your girlfriends mcdonalds out the window :-/
so it finally happened, she said its over :-/ details... been together nearly 2 years, i love her with all my heart, ive done everything and anything she has ever wanted, i thought she was the girl for me and i dont know how im going to get over this :sad2: she has been hanging out with friends who are single recently and they flirt and have fun chatting up boys and everything. i have asked her again and again if she wanted to be single but she tells me she loves me. i buy her things all the time, and take us places (she doesnt drive), and i am always there for her, in 2 years i have always been there when i said i would be, and never made a promise i couldnt keep.
my stomach hurts and i do not want to eat. i bought her a new phone recently and she has been on bbm chatting with girls and boys, it annoyed me not that i was jealous but because she would be sending lots of kisses to boys (and girls) and to me i get 1 word answers and a couple of kisses, unless she wants something then she puts more.
my question is, do i be her friend like she wants? she was crying saying it wont be the same between us, i have a feeling she was doing this so i still run around after her, so she can go out and flirt with boys and have someone to buy her things still.
my first instinct is to act as i am feeling, sad, but say i am ok, but not try to make conversation (i am always the one making the effort anyway), so just sit back and smoke a cigarette and listen to music, instead of engaging in conversation. not buy her things like i used to and lets see if the boys she is running after run after her like i did!
any advice on how to act, i dont want to act "normal" so she is happy to run after boys and have me as a friend and using me. i love her so much and right now she is putting things on her facebook / bbm like smiley faces, its hurts me even more because it hurts me so much.
any advice
oh and she hit me in the face, so i threw the mcdonalds (i bought her) out of the window, she said "now its definately over", we didnt speak to each other much after that, i simply said i was sorry and i loved her, she cried and said it wont be the same as friends ( which is what she wants)???? so confused, i want her back, any advice please? maybe she just needs space to figure out what boys are really about, before getting with a nice guy who worships her >>>???