Problems with ejaculation

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10-11-13, 09:35 AM
FAlex

Problems with ejaculation

I have had 2 Girlfriends so far, the first I had no problems, I would actually ejaculate really fast, until the last 2-3 months of the relationship that it got a bit harder.

Then she broke up with me (no feels are left behind, Do not feel anything for her now).

Got another Grilfriend after 1 year she broke with me, so I'm over it, we started having sex after the 5th month and I would ejaculate pretty fast, however currently (now on 7th month) I seem to have problems ejaculate during sex/oral sex/ penetration, she ends up coming around 10 minutes later and I for some reason just can't ejaculate. However I can ejaculate without problem if we go for a second round 30-40 minutes later.

She once made oral sex for 30 minutes and it did feel really good but it just didn't work.

However at mastrubating I don't have problems, also I do watch porn and always did even when i was with my first GF, I do get very easly erected when I'm near my GF so I don't think it's an erection problem, also I do feel motivated (A LOT) doing it with her. So I don't really know what's the problem :c.

Thanks,
10-11-13, 10:52 AM
smackie9

Stop watching porn and masturbating....you have desensitized yourself. You will see results pretty quickly after you stop.
10-11-13, 11:03 AM
searock

It might be a psychological problem. Are you in love with this girl? Do you feel 100% comfortable with her, intimately and otherwise? Did you have issues in previous sexual encounters with other persons in which you felt ashamed or "not good enough" because you reached orgasm too quickly?

Or, smackie may be spot-on: if you are masturbating often, that is likely to be the cause of your problems in the bedroom. Try going a whole week without masturbating, then have sex with your girlfriend... you'll have no problems reaching orgasm.
10-11-13, 12:28 PM
basilandthyme

Are you wearing condoms? The down side is loss of sensitivity
10-11-13, 12:55 PM
FAlex

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Originally Posted by smackie9 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Stop watching porn and masturbating....you have desensitized yourself. You will see results pretty quickly after you stop.

Tried it already and was the same :\, few days later I tried to mastrubate again and then I had nor problem but next week was the same again, sometimes It's ok but most of time there's problems

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Originally Posted by basilandthyme [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Are you wearing condoms? The down side is loss of sensitivity

We tried with condoms and without and the results is kinda the same, sadly :c.

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Originally Posted by searock [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

It might be a psychological problem. Are you in love with this girl? Do you feel 100% comfortable with her, intimately and otherwise? Did you have issues in previous sexual encounters with other persons in which you felt ashamed or "not good enough" because you reached orgasm too quickly?

Or, smackie may be spot-on: if you are masturbating often, that is likely to be the cause of your problems in the bedroom. Try going a whole week without masturbating, then have sex with your girlfriend... you'll have no problems reaching orgasm.

Yes, I'm in love with this girl,also I feel 100% Comfortable in any case, also no previous sexual encounter problems.
I guess I'm gona give another try at the week without mastrubating :\.