adting advice re: future want/not want kids
hi
ok, i am 35 and dating, looking for a future husband. i don't think i really want kids - i may change my mind, but highly doubt it. i am in the processes of getting to know a man who is great, but although he doesn't know for sure, he is leaning towards wanting kids. he knows where i stand with this. i am not sure if i even want to start something with someone who is leaning towards wanting kids, when i am leaning in the other direction, even though we are compatible in so many other ways. i don't want to invest time and emotion into something that may end in MY heartbreak - you know, in a year he says that he's been thinking about it and he REALLY wants kids, and because i probably still won't want them, he then leaves and i've wasted a whole year...i don't know what to do....anyone else been in this situation??
thanks in advance
geminII