Originally Posted by whaywardj
I have one word for you, Equivo. Chill. Then a few more for the board.
I've posted here before about a woman I'm close to who's been in and out my life in all manner of forms for the last five years. Currently she's back in, after a two-month hiatus (the fourth or fifth such break-up of varying durations). First, she doesn't want to commit. Then, she be "an idiot" not to. Then she just isn't able to. Then she wants to be just friends. Then she loves me, but I don't have enough money. Then she is "really hypocritical to feel that way" and doesn't care about money. Then all over again from the beginning. I stopped taking my cues from her about a year ago. As long as I'm unattached, she may come and go in my life as she pleases. It has little to do with me. I quit wishing for one thing over another from her. I just take what she offers and I leave the rest. You might find this interesting: [url]http://shesnotthere.cx.la[/url]
Moral of my post? Expect nothing. Hold onto nothing. Accept everything. Until the right woman comes along and stakes her claim on you. Then adjust accordingly.