Originally Posted by daletom
Half the virgins who answered this poll, as well as the corresponding one for girls, are 20 or older.
I thought much the same way. It ended in a wedding night that was VERY significant and meaningful . . . as well as some of the lousiest and (especially for her) painful sex imaginable. You're right about the definition - and this probably would make a whole new thread. My wife & I had done "just about everything but . . . " before we exchanged virginities (she got mine & I took hers). If the genital coupling is significant to you and your partner - and you're BOTH willing to work with each other - you can enjoy a LOT of pleasure and intimacy short of PIV sex.