Originally Posted by
Relationship T.
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Yes and no.
First and foremost, you are upset because you desire more time with her. If jealousy is in there, then I'd ask you to express that in an additional reply.
The issue is that you are telling her that her behaviors need adjustment so as to avoid your negative emotional reaction. You are attempting to control behaviors of hers and she is not taking it well. Understand that you will never get what you want by doing this.
This relationship might not work out, and this is a factual conclusion that faces every single couple, even my own. What will give you the best chances of success is acceptance.
Hope this helps,
Anthony - Relationship Teacher