How to console her???

Hi Friends,

Recently me and my girlfriend haven't been in good contact there was some problem.

She was keeping away from me.

She said she will be back from it and text me someday..

This morning she had sent me a gud morning text and then came a text which she had sent to some other number..

It was like asking the person U started it in morning itself..

I was already frustrated not knowing why she was keeping away from me...

I asked her straight away "Are you with someone else"

She got angry and she is really hurt now... She didnt expect me to doubt her

Tell me friends..
What can I do...??

Discuss with her your problem and ask her what she want :)

Well what are you supposed to think if she is avoiding you? Tell her to shove her hurt up her ass. Tell her your hurt because of the way she is treating you and you want all or nothing. Put your foot down and stop letting her call the shots.

You should say to her that you are not putting up with this BS, she either wants to be with you or she doesnt so hurry up and make up her mind or you will start looking for someone else who isnt so bloody complicated.

Just man up and show her that you have self-respect and you will not stick around to be treated like second best so make her choice now and if she is still distant and avoiding you after that-forget her and move on with your life.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Well what are you supposed to think if she is avoiding you? Tell her to shove her hurt up her ass. Tell her your hurt because of the way she is treating you and you want all or nothing. Put your foot down and stop letting her call the shots.

You should say to her that you are not putting up with this BS, she either wants to be with you or she doesnt so hurry up and make up her mind or you will start looking for someone else who isnt so bloody complicated.

Just man up and show her that you have self-respect and you will not stick around to be treated like second best so make her choice now and if she is still distant and avoiding you after that-forget her and move on with your life.

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Very perfectly suggested Michelle but am not sure if I can directly hurt her that way...

But if she doesnt want to do this anymore I will not disturb her anymore...

am jus not sure if she will readily speak out her heart :(

Way too complicated...

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Originally Posted by annurao [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Discuss with her your problem and ask her what she want :)

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@annuroa that s the problem with her...
she is jus not revealin what is in her heart...
that is what makes me feel so bad and frustrated.. :(

Dump her. Tell her not to talk to you until she's sure she wants to be with you. Stop being such a whiny bitch in the first place and these things won't happen to you.

Let her have her space, get on with your own life, putting yourself on hold for her is only going to add to your problems.

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Originally Posted by BackUpOrGetStng [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dump her. Tell her not to talk to you until she's sure she wants to be with you. Stop being such a whiny bitch in the first place and these things won't happen to you.

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Thanks for ur suggestion @BackupOrGetstng I have to talk to her...
But please dont call her a bitch... she is my love my girlfriend... Hope you get it what I feel for her...

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Originally Posted by madbull79 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Let her have her space, get on with your own life, putting yourself on hold for her is only going to add to your problems.

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Ya for now that is my plan am gonna let her give some space and carry on with my life if she wants to be with me she will be there...

OP do not contact her at all. Let her come to you. You need to put her on ignore now and tell her if she wants you back-she knows where to find you. Leave it at that.

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Originally Posted by michelle23 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

OP do not contact her at all. Let her come to you. You need to put her on ignore now and tell her if she wants you back-she knows where to find you. Leave it at that.

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for now am jus keepin in very partial text contact...
just a formal good morning and good night...

occassionally some forwards...
should I have to avoid that too???