Resentment? How to let it go when they keep doing the same stuff
My husband has done many many things, he has emotionally neglected me, alone with neglecting the kids, he never wants to do anything, is controlling, takes my feelings for "naggy" isn't grateful.... has a crazy mom.... aka monster in law who is bi-polar and thinks I want to sleep with her husband (my father in law. He seems to have no emotions or ability to show empathy AT ALL, he gps me, try's
To control me job, parenting, my clothes. He has made me insecure of the most silly things.... I wrote a list of everything he did and read them to him and said sorry and I forgive you, but most of all I forgive myself for allowing it.... but he just keeeps the same behavior and always wants a " get out of jail free card" without having to help build me up or show me he can do better. He always says sorry, but I told him if I broke a plate of the floor it will shatter try saying sorry to that and see if it helps, it takes time and effort not words to put the plate back together.... how can I let it go if he nags me and keeps the same behavior? I have told him I was going to leave but I really don't think he believes I actually will. Advice appreciated
