In Love but later came to know he is MARRIED
Hi All,
I am a girl , single and well stable software engineer...
I am in big problem.. In January I went to meet my friends out of station and I met a guy via friends of friend and he became my buddy.
Later we started talking on phone every day for hours and he really use to care a lot for me.
2 months later I started feeling for him and I knew he loves me too but could not wait as i knew he was shy and I proposed him.. He took a while but later accepted.
Our love was so passionate that he use to always talk to me and even use to do Video calls in nights like 2am - 4am like that, he use to talk full nights on weekends..
These things always made me feel he was only with me and even being long distance I never felt he could cheat on me.
Last Thursday I called him in evening and someone picked the call but was quiet and this happened 2 3 times I made calls back to back..
Later I called and He picked and said I will call later some issue happened.. then he didnt called fro 1 day and his phones where off...
I now was in doubt that what happened.. atleast he could call..
Then he told me HIS mom left home knowing he has an affair with me and that she read all our Whatsapp chats.
I could not accept this as WHY MOM WILL LEAVE HOME FOR HIS SON DATING A GIRL ???
I started my investigation and digging his facebook account .. visited eaCh post and comments and FINALLY THE truth came in front that there was a pic of his marriage.
I kept my mouth shut and planned to meet him f2f and when I came in front of him I helped him to tell this truth from his own mouth.
Finally that tough point came when he himself said " Yes I am married from 5 years " But he said He loves me and didnt wanted to tell as he dont wana loose me..
He said I want to marry you but due to family I cant leave her..my parents and all will create issues.
he planned to take me Dubai and we will marry and stay there adn that in a year he will come home town..
THE ISSUE IS I LOVE HIM AND I CANT LEAVE HIM .. HE LOVES ME BUT HE IS ALREADY MARRIED..
SHALL I TRUST HIM BUT EVEN IF HE MARRY HE IS DIVIDED HE IS NOT FULLY MINE AND CAN NEVER BE