Relationship won’t progress? Shy guy?
Hello! I am not new to dating at all. And I am picky. But the stars aligned randomly this year to bring a Guy I’ve been secretly crushing on to move to my city for a new job and happened to be single! Leading up to his move we called and texted and sent videos every day for 3 months. Then he moved here (and is busy obviously!) so we’ve had 3 dates. In person is JUST AS GREAT as long distance. We talk for hours and laugh and have so many of the same interests and the attraction is there! I know he USED to by shy with girls and still might be but at the end of the first date he went in for a kiss (a good one at that) not a huge makeout session but a decent kiss goodnight. However...the 2 dates since then (been seeing each other once a week) are the same...I almost feel friend zoned (no kissing or touching or hand holding or flirting) till the kiss goodnight. I want to progress a little bit into makin our or hand holding and eventually sex....but at this rate i feel like it’ll be 4 months till I get a makeout session haha. What should I do? I’m used to guys taking the reigns so I don’t want to turn him off by being too aggressive and because he’s not putting out those signals I don’t want to cross a line. Should i just let it be and see where it goes? I’m very confused by this i feel like a guy in the relationship.