Help required for approaching a crush
I'm 25 and have huge crush on this girl who is 29. We were working in the same office. I guess she also likes me as I noticed here staring me several times. Also she was the first to start the conversation most of the times when we met.
But when I asked the reason for staring, she got tensed and said there is nothing like that and I'm like her younger brother. But I think, she said this in stress because she might have thought I was complaining and I'm younger than her. But I'm not sure about this. How can I approach her to know her true feelings? Or do I need to drop idea of approaching her at all as she hitted me like a brother. I like her very much.
I think the question about staring might have freaked her out. I agree that was a damn stupid approach. I regret that. But I was expecting a positive response from her on that question. Also I have said sorry to her if I have hurt her and told her that I was just kidding and she said it is OK and have forgotten about that. What does this implies?
Also she had left our work place 3 weeks ago (for better job opportunities) only making my chances to approach her difficult as hell. And she don't have profile on any social media either. She can be contacted only through phone. But contacting her on phone seems somewhat awkward to me right now. Or how do I initiate conversation/message on phone that will not make her awkward either if possible? Any advice on this?
By the way she will be coming to my office within a month for last time for some documentation formalities. At that time she will be meeting all the colleagues. Any chance for approaching her that time. Most probably that will be my last time meeting her. But I will always keep my hopes high!
