So, back in January this year, I met this girl (21) at a restaurant who happens to attend the same college as I do. We've texted back and forth since then, and we finally met a week ago due to schedule conflicts in between.
So we met up for coffee/drinks last week, and during this date, I think it's safe to say that she was showing signs of interest, at least in my opinion. The things she asked me (IN DETAIL) included: my last relationship (how long it lasted, why it ended, what the girl looked like), my hobbies/interests, and...my sex life too. She said she's a virgin, never been in a real relationship, and at one point during the date, was too nervous over how I thought of her appearance. She even told me to lie if I thought she was ugly. Obviously, I told her she looked good, and tried to calm her down. She seemed pretty innocent, sweet, almost like the perfect girl...
Except...
She takes forever to text back. FOREVER.
This started happening since I met her, when one text a day slowly turned into once every other day, to eventually once a freakin' week lol. Even on the day before our first date last week, when we were setting up the place and time, she took hours in between to respond, which goes on record as the fastest time so far lol.
This kinda messes with my head, especially since I tend to overthink things. Could it be that she's just not that into me? Maybe I misread signs? Or is she not ready to date? Whatever the case may be, I know she's intentionally doing this, because somewhere during the date, she mentioned about how she's aware she takes a while to reply, but I panicked and didn't continue asking her about it, since I didn't wanna put her on the spot right then and there, particularly on a first date. Currently on a 4-day no reply streak lol...I know if a girl is interested that they'll obviously respond much faster, but I don't know, what do you guys think is going on here?