Hello all! I'm new here and in need of some advice.
I had this boyfriend (I'll call him X). We were together 8 years on and off. Whenever he gets mad at me he always want to throw that "8 year" crap in my face, and how he's done a lot for me. first of, he don't really do jack for me, but give me headaches, and stress. Of course he brought me gifts, here and there... but boyfriends are supposed to do those things. He acts as if buying me gifts is really doing something for me. During our first 3 years of being together, i use to spend money on him, but I never bring that up. A matter of fact it seems as if he forgot what I use to do for him. Another thing is that he is controlling. He tells me who to be friends with, and where to go. When i don't Abie by his rules, he wants to accuse me of cheating, and calls me all types of names in the book. Therefore, I broke up with his sorry behind yesterday. I am so sick and tired of his angry ways!!!
The things is, when I broke up with him the last time, it lasted about six months. during that time, I met this other guy (let's called him Z). He was charming, and almost everything I ever wanted in a man. However, towards the end he got a little weird on me... he wouldn't talk to me, or have any fun. He basically became boring. So, I dropped him and got back with X.
In the last few weeks, I met this man "Y". He 29 years old, a little weird, but fun. He tells me that he likes me a lot, and want to be with me. He's living with my friend, so whenever I go there I have no choice but to see him. I can really feel myself falling for this one. However, he's shy. I told him I like him and he knows about my "boy problems", and he told me he'll give me some time to work those out. However, the problem with this one is he's living with my friend (a girl). He doesnt have a place to live right now. I don't know if I should give him a chance or not.
Darn, my life is like a soap. What would you guys do in my situation?
