About a year ago, I had a sort-of date with a guy that I liked. We had known each other vaguely for a few months, and had gotten closer over the previous month or so. At the time, we were good friends, although I had realized a few weeks before that I really liked him. We watched a movie at his apartment, cuddling the whole time - it was wonderful. He walked me back to my room and we kissed. Nothing major, but it meant a lot to me, since the only other guy I ever kissed, I didn't even like that much.
Next day he told me that he didn't think he should be in a relationship, and he was sorry for leading me on, but he wasn't really in a good place to be with someone. I was really disappointed, but figured he'd come around eventually - it really seemed like he liked me. I went home the next day. He graduated at the end of that semester, so he wasn't back in the spring. We talked a lot over break, it was totally cool and not awkward. However, after break, he completely disappeared. Never called, and didn't email for 2 months. I stopped calling him in February or so, and since then we have emailed semi-regularly. I went from being devastated and infatuated with him, to being OK but still wanting to talk to him, to being totally "over him". (ie, getting emails from him no longer excites me, and when he finally called after a year, I realized that I didn't really need to talk to him anymore.)
Anyway, I haven't seen him since the day after the "incident" last December, so it's been over a year. I was hanging out with his old roommate yesterday, whom I got to be friends with in the spring, and he said that he invited the roommate to come spend a weekend. Do you think seeing him again would be a bad idea? ... perhaps re-awaken the long-dead romantic interest? I don't know. any advice?
