Hey all, I need some serious advice on things...
I recently was dumped after a wonderful 3 year relationship with the love of my life, and I didn't think that I would ever come to terms with myself that there was anyone else out there. It wasn't a horrible or angry breakup by any means, I had been her only true love, and she felt that she needed to experience her life, and set more focus on her college and family, which I respected, simply because I wanted her to be happy. My first problem lies in the fact that it has only been a little over 2 weeks now, and I went from "horribly devistated" to "fine" literally overnight. And at this moment in time I honestly feel as if it is somehow better this way, and have accepted to let her go.
So is it possible for me to be "okay" again in 2 weeks after getting out of an intimate 3 years relationship? I feel like I am, but am I really over her?
My next issue lies in the fact that I have a lot of friends that happen to be girls, and I've always thought this one girl was particulary cute. I even told one of my best freinds that I could see us together at some point before I started dating my love of 3 years. Just recently the girl that I said I could one day see myself with approached me and told me that she's liked me for a long time now. Almost the entire 3 years that I was going out with my ex. But that she respected me so she didn't want to say anything. She also said that she realizes that I prolly need some space right now, and that she would understand and support and decisions I would make to see her, or not see her. We've hung out the past couple days with freinds, and went to see a movie together "as friends."
She is an amazingly awesome girl, she's smart, beautiful, fun, and loving... but I just don't know what to do? I'm attracted to her, but I don't feel like I felt about my ex. Is that selfish to judge that way? Have I forgotten how it feels to not be comfortable with someone, and have that awkwardness of first attraction?
Help, thanks!
