Non Vocal

Sex,
Its my favorite subject,
I have a couple of questions.
I was going out with this girl for a year. Sex was allright, but not great. It was only great becuase i love her. But she was very quite. She is a smaller girl and i am a bigger guy but by her being somewhat quite it makes me quite. The other girls i had sex with def made some noices. Whats the deal?

Next- in the begining stages of the relationship, she would give me head at least once a week. And i hardly returned the favor. But as i started to care for her i would do anything to please her. And now i actually like to do it to her. ALmost every time we fooled around i woud go south. Just loved to see her reaction. Which is extremly more vocal then having sex. Now she doesn't return the favor. What the deal?

Last- She says that when on top she can get her self off at any time. She can control that. Is that normal?

I quess i need a girl that is into sex all the time and whats to be spontagous.
Also she only had sex with one other guy i wounder if that has anything to do with anything.

are you referring to noises as like moans?

when the girl is on top it is her way of controling depth, and movement, thus causing herself to get off at any point. i usually do this when it's a quikie.

>The other girls i had sex with def made some noices. Whats the >deal?

They are all different. Get used to it.

> Now she doesn't return the favor. What the deal?

Well you didn't at the start either. Women are strange creatures. Deal with it.

>Is that normal?

What's normal? One mans perversion is another mans normality.

>I quess i need a girl that is into sex all the time and whats to be >spontagous

with all my heart...Good luck

>Also she only had sex with one other guy i wounder if that has >anything to do with anything.

Probably not.

I guess I am the barrer of good new s ot you guys.
SEXUAL WOMEN DO EXIST!!!

I love sex. Anytime anywhere...
Ther are women out there that feel the same way. However, the vocal thing is an interesting question. I remeber when I first started to have sex, I wasn't vocal, I sort of grew in to that. I was not sure of myself and I wasn't always sure if thats what I was supposed to do.. yaknow how it goes.
Just because one is and one isn't doesn't make it normal or non-normal.
Good luck guys... may you find your sexual diva!

I'm not vocal. I mean I'm not a girl, but I'm still not vocal. My girlfriend asks me about it too. She'll ask, "Why don't you make noise?" I just tell her I'm not really sure about what noises I should make. Then the next time we're fooling around I just pretend it's a porno and moan and groan with lot's of "Oh Yeah"s and "That's the way I like it". But then she tells me to "shut up. THat's not what I meant"

Hey. At least I tried, right?

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Originally posted by sfalexi
I just pretend it's a porno and moan and groan with lot's of "Oh Yeah"s and "That's the way I like it". But then she tells me to "shut up. THat's not what I meant"

Hey. At least I tried, right?

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LOL.... yeah you bet ...

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Originally posted by sfalexi
I'm not vocal. I mean I'm not a girl, but I'm still not vocal. My girlfriend asks me about it too. She'll ask, "Why don't you make noise?" I just tell her I'm not really sure about what noises I should make. Then the next time we're fooling around I just pretend it's a porno and moan and groan with lot's of "Oh Yeah"s and "That's the way I like it". But then she tells me to "shut up. THat's not what I meant"

Hey. At least I tried, right?

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Don´t think about it. Let your feelings guide you and just do it if and when it feels right and natural.
If you do sometning like that because you think you should the girl might find it a bit silly. If it´s obvious to her that you´r only doing it because you think you´r expected to.

Regards!

Me and my Girl's sex life is very heathy, and after 2 years, its still frickin awesome. The way she moans, good lord have mercy!!

well if she doesn't moan that's the type of person she is. you have to bring this up with her if you want anything to change. if you never say anything, she'll think you're fine with it.

about the giving head thang..hahah she's in control of you now. raverboy

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Originally posted by Illusional
about the giving head thang..hahah she's in control of you now. raverboy [/B]

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LOL...yup.. thats the way I see it. Women can do that.

haha i think it can work both ways. i was going out with this girl a while back and i remember i was always the one that gave her oral and she never did it back to me. i felt a bit dissatisfied but i never said anything cuz it never really bothering me. then i wanted to test things out and i stopped giving her oral for about a week and i guess she noticed. she told me that she missed and it and wondering why i stopped giving her head. well i felt this was a one way road so it kinda upset me, however after i talked to her, she was just a bit shy because she had never really giving head before and i guess she felt inexperienced. basically you just have to talk to your girl and see wassup whitechoc123. raverboy

about the moaning - two days ago my girlfriend was at my house and we spent some great time together. after some intense caressing, we were on my bed and i started fingering her. she was so ready that when i started doing that, she just started moaning and nearly screaming. anyways, she was enjoying it so much (moaning AND squirming) that i just exploded. i had my boxers on, didn't touch her except with my hand, but i came, and it was intense! i guess it just built up in me and all it took was seeing my love being satisfied :O

I've said this once and I'll say it again...
COMMINCATION IS THE KEY!!
If you can have the most imtimate act with someone ever possiable? .. then you can talk to her about it. As long as your honest and not accusing.. she'll welcome it. Talk to her, try even talking to her about it while your doing it! ;)