I like my BF alot, but I'm not all that physicly attracted to him. I feel there are afew things he could do to look alot better in my eyes, but I don't know if I really have the right to ask him to change(loose weight, spice up his clothes,shave/trim 'down there', new hairstyle...) And if I do how do I go about it so that I don't hurt his feelings???