Hard to get? seems unlikely at this point
Reading some of the other topics, I saw someone's comment that when girls play hard to get, they (the guy writing) just forget it. However, so many other guys have said that if you act too interested, they feel smothered and run in the other direction. I'm trying to figure out the balance, and I feel like I'm a bit on the clingy side.
I've been trying to stay in contact with the guy that I like, who kissed me a few weeks ago but then hasn't said ANYTHING about it since then. I don't think I gave him the impression I wasn't interested, because I TOLD him "I really, really like you" (but I did stop the kissing because I didn't want it to go to far when I didn't even know how he felt. Sorry for the people who have heard this story 5 times.)
Anyway, since then, we've had a few good (unrelated to relationship) conversations, and he's suggested getting together to hang out. When I suggest hanging out, he'll say "OK, give me a call at such-and-such a time tonight" rather than saying he'll call me. I'm not sure what to do when he says this, because as enthusiastic as he is about getting together, he never returns calls and I feel like I'm talking rather pathetically to his voicemail. Any suggestions on achieving that balance between stalker and hard-to-get?