As many of you recall from my other thread, me and my ex broke up on mutual terms. However, I am technically the dumpee since she took a strong "give up and move on" initiative after the breakup. Having said that, I will describe my last contact with her and allow you guys to steer me in the right direction. The day after the breakup, I called her to see if we could meet at a park where it was calm to talk and she agreed to do it the next day. When the next day rolled around, she called me during lunch and told me that after thinking things over, there was no further purpose in seeing each other or talking about anything.
After about 4 kind requests for her to accept my request (borderline begging), she said that if I REALLY needed to tell her something that it couldn't be in person. I kindly accepted and told her that I would be sending her a letter. That same day I sent her the famous e-mail letter. Not a sappy, mushy letter... just a letter that pretty much explained my coming to terms with my attitude problem and that I was planning on fixing it, etc... (The letter did not indicate that a reply was necesary). No reply has been attained in 10 days, and last Friday I sent her a response to an e-mail about something she wanted back with a "PS: Thinking of you... a lot". I kind of thought of it as a non-harmful, tiny little stone in her pond.
She just replied "Thank you", but to the main e-mail header, not to the "P.S." message. it has now been 5 days of NC since that final contact. Is it to late for NC to work? Any suggestions? Thanks!
CH
