Voluntarily send her stuff back, or wait for her contact?

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29-03-06, 05:45 AM
coldheart

Voluntarily send her stuff back, or wait for her contact?

Me and my ex broke up mutually about 2 weeks ago due to excalating arguments and some mistreatment/neglection on my part. 24 hours after the breakup she called to let me know that we didn't have any reason to see each other or talk about anything else because nothing would work at this point. In addition, she told me that all of my stuff was ready for pickup at her house and I picked it up through a friend the next day.

Now that I have moved into my new house, I have an entire boxfull of her stuff and about 4 hangers of clothing articles. Should I box it all up and just wait for a "forced" contact on her part, or voluntarily send it back through FedEx? What type of impression would this yield? At the moment Im holding NC for 2 weeks and she apparantly wants nothing to do with me any further since she hasn't contacted me. All advice is appreciated!

CH
29-03-06, 07:28 AM
clynn

do you WANT to see or talk to her again?

If not, I'd say Fed-ex it baby.
29-03-06, 07:33 AM
DutchBoY

ye, send it and get on with your life.
05-04-06, 07:19 PM
confused01

i believe if she doesn't need it through it away, send it, get ride of it and move on
don't wait for her call, and even if she calls after and ask for her stuf fthat happens to be in the garbage say clearly i through it away. do what you think is right just don't wait for her call
07-04-06, 01:32 AM
Sandman

Send it back, she problably doesn't want to contact you for the same reasons you don't. I have been through the same thing, I always send the stuff back wiether or wiether not she wants it. You'll thank yourself later.
07-04-06, 04:20 AM
coldheart

Thanks guys. Funny how she continues to contact me regarding some things she randomly finds in her house that belong to me. Petty lil things too... it doesn't make sense. Keychains, bathware, An old TV that I could care less about... It's not friendly e-mails either. They wreak with bitterness of how dry they are... Oh well... LOL

CH
08-04-06, 08:41 AM
cheazypeaz

sell it on ebay lol
08-04-06, 08:48 AM
RogerWilco

Quote:

Originally Posted by cheazypeaz

sell it on ebay lol

Word.
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08-04-06, 09:19 AM
King Zarathu

It really depends, what exactly is it?
10-04-06, 06:35 PM
HarryJ

Quote:

Originally Posted by cheazypeaz

sell it on ebay lol

rofl

If shes sending u bitter emails about u needing to collect ure stuff, i think shes attention seeking. by saying she donesnt wanna talk anymore... then emailing u all the time about silly little things, i think shes still feeling for u.

bin it all (or sell on ebay rofl)

i suggest the latter :P