she needs a break..

hi guys.
i have a gf that i'm together with for 7 months.
the thing is...we fight a lot and stuff.
so the other day she told me that she needs a little space.
but i love her so much that i was so upset she took a break.
the other day we were talking on the phone and i told her that it was over between us cuz i couldn't wait.
the only reason i said that was because i thought she would stop the break.
but she didn't.
so i called her back saying that i didn't mean it and i love her very much.
so she decided that we break-up for a while so she can take her space.
but she told me that she won't leave me and will come back to me as soon she's ok.
but she never gave me a time frame.
i asked her how long it will take and she told me: " i dont know"
i love her sooo much and i wanna be with her so bad!!
but time is killing me man!
i try to think about other stuff but i keep thinking about her....:(
uugh love is so complicated!
does anybody share the same story?

Sorry, I don't share the same story, but if you don't mind me saying so, it sounds like you are a bit too clingy. You might try getting a hold of yourself before you scare her away for good.

I wish you luck.

the hard to tell when huh?...

When she said she need space.....she obviously meant it....

Give her the space she needs for awhile.... (at least two weeks) then see where things stand... If you don't do this, you are really gonna scare her away....

If you can't handle that she wants a break.....then chances are your gonna lose her anyways.....so either deal with it.....or breakup and move on.

I don't really liked how you said you wanted to break up but then asked to take it back afterwards. It does sound like you are very attached and very clingy. Maybe you are really holding her too tight while you are trying to make sure that your relationship is going well. It's a big turn-off for girls if you get too clingy.

I think you should keep yourself very busy during this break and maybe even pull away from her a bit and not be too attached. If you expect too much, you might hurt yourself more in the end.

Make sure you give her room and don't contact her.

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i am a girl ,so i understand your gf .i think she must not love you ,she just was tired with live,i present an adance to you that you can give her a space,you call her once in a while as her friend but not bf. Do you understand?

I went through the same kind of thing. Just give it time buddy, don't be selfish and cling on to her when she's asking for space.

Also, I have two questions for you--if you don't answer them you're an asshole:
1) How old are you and the girl?
2) Have you two had sex?

If you are both still in your teen ages and the answer to number 2 is yes (since it is, after all, a yes/no question), that explains your fighting. Bring me a beer.

Oooo! Dramarama! Just a little piece of advice- as a girl, I like to be the drama queen in my relationship. Take off the tiara!

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Originally Posted by johnnybravo

hi guys.
i have a gf that i'm together with for 7 months.
the thing is...we fight a lot and stuff.
so the other day she told me that she needs a little space.
but i love her so much that i was so upset she took a break.
the other day we were talking on the phone and i told her that it was over between us cuz i couldn't wait.
the only reason i said that was because i thought she would stop the break.
but she didn't.
so i called her back saying that i didn't mean it and i love her very much.
so she decided that we break-up for a while so she can take her space.
but she told me that she won't leave me and will come back to me as soon she's ok.
but she never gave me a time frame.
i asked her how long it will take and she told me: " i dont know"
i love her sooo much and i wanna be with her so bad!!
but time is killing me man!
i try to think about other stuff but i keep thinking about her....:(
uugh love is so complicated!
does anybody share the same story?

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Dude, I hate to say it. But you are acting like a little bich. If you say that its over, then mean it its over.

I am in a similar situation, just give her all the space she needs. She needs to think things through, you will make things worse by trying to contact her as it won't help her at all. I know it willl drive you mad because she didn't give you a time frame, you just have to respect that if you really want to be with her. Keep yourself really busy.
Best of luck.