You know, everyone has friends that they innocently flirt with. I'd never lead guys on or give the impression i was "seriously" flirting, but sometimes I like to make risque jokes, it's funny.
Yet it bothers me if my s.o. flirts, especially if it's on the phone or over the internet rather than while hanging out with a group of people. I have his myspace password because I do all the decorative stuff on his page for him. While I was looking at some messages he had sent me, I came across messages he sent to a friend of his that he dated for a while several years ago. I feel bad for snooping, but still, seeing all these flirtatious messages makes me kind of jealous. Of course I can't say anything and they don't contact each other very often. I won't be snooping anymore either.. but still, how to look at this in perspective instead of letting my imagination tell me he wants her really bad? He thinks it's funny to hit on her and sometimes tells me about her responses when he does, because he thinks it's funny. She's an ex of one of his best friends and I don't feel threatened, but can't help feeling jealous. Makes me not want to meet her, even though he's told me I would like her and he'd love to introduce us. thoughts?
